By Jaimie Lee-Barron
There are many reasons why a person might decide to turn up at your dojo and have a go at the martial arts, and it is important that we try and identify these in order to establish exactly what the potential student is looking for, and whether or not your art is going to give it to them.
These are all very good questions to be asking yourself, but it
is even more important to actually ask the learners themselves
rather than allowing yourself to make any “knee-jerk” judgments or
decisions for them, and jumping to any conclusions.
Indeed, having preconceptions about learners can be extremely
misleading indeed, and can cause no end of problems later on. I
remember one particular instructor boasting proudly that one of his
students happened to be an officer in the Royal Marines Reserve.
“That’s good” I said, “Why is he here?” At this question, my
colleague looked both shocked and amused “He’s here to learn how to
fight, of course!” he said, rather indignantly.
Now, without wanting to “burst any ones bubble”, I think it’s
fair to say that an officer in the Royal Marines might already know
something about fighting, and certainly wouldn’t need any advice
from the local martial arts club down the road! (“I’m off to a war
zone next month, and was wondering if you could help me out…..,” NOT
GOING TO HAPPEN!!!) On closer examination, it turned out that this
individual was researching certain aspects of Japanese culture as
part of his Masters degree! He had come to the class in order to
learn something about classical martial arts, and the instructor
(thanks to him jumping to conclusions) had him in a corner doing
pistol disarming! (Good differentiation, but completely
inappropriate)
The fellow was far too polite to say anything, and was just
persevering patiently in the hope that they would eventually get to
practice some more traditional techniques as the class progressed!
This happens all the time within the martial arts fraternity,
simply because we don’t bother to find out what the prospective
learner is looking for in the first place! As instructors, we should
never take anything for granted: Simply because a person happens to
wander in to your club on a training night doesn’t necessarily mean
that they know anything about what you’re doing, or even have an
actual interest in martial arts. (That reminds me of another story,
when a young lady entered a dojo and was immediately told by the
instructor to get on the mat and warm up. She took part in the whole
lesson (it was a beginners class) and, when asked at the end what
she thought of it she said she had enjoyed it quite a lot, but
actually only came in because she thought the aerobics class took
place on that particular night!)
Take some time out to talk to them, put one of your senior
students in charge for a few moments, walk over, and introduce
yourself! This will help to make both you (as one of those creatures
of legend “The Black Belt”) and your club far more approachable and
accommodating, and will immediately impress upon the visitor that
you DO consider them to be important and DO care about them.
Usually, they will volunteer a certain amount of information
regarding their background and expectations such as: “I used to do
karate when I was younger, and just thought I would pop in and have
a look” etc.
But, you should also ask them some questions as well in order to
clarify any important points, and enable you to get some idea of
what they are after and build up a picture of their expectations.
Some of the possible reasons for people wanting to learn the
martial arts are as follows:
- Self Defence
With crime on the increase, this is probably the most common
reason for most people considering taking up the martial arts, as
they feel it will at least give them a “fighting chance” if they are
ever unfortunate enough to be attacked.
- Physical Fitness
People are being encouraged to take more of an interest in their
well-being these days, and the martial arts provide them with the
opportunity of building up their levels of stamina, strength, and
suppleness by providing a good “all round” workout.
- Sport
Many martial arts such as Judo, Kickboxing and Kendo are very
lively and established sports offering participants the chance of
competing at club, local, national and international levels. And
this supplies a very healthy outlet for the competitive spirit.
- Philosophical
The martial arts have, over the period of centuries been influenced by a great many different religions and philosophies, and all have left their particular mark. This is particularly the case with the softer, Japanese arts of Aikido, Iaido and Kyudo, and the internal Chinese martial arts of Tai Chi, Pa Kua and Hsing-Yi.
- Cultural
Martial arts are extremely rich in history, tradition and
customs. As such, they will tend to appeal to people who are
interested in these particular aspects of human behaviour, be that
just a casual curiosity or even an academic study.
- Psychological
Again, martial arts are superb tools for building up a person’s
confidence and self-esteem, and are also brilliant at controlling
stress levels. Some schools even include relaxation and meditation
techniques, and both of these have become quite fashionable in
recent times.
- Social
Martial artists tend to train hard and play hard, and some clubs have a very lively social scene whereby they organise trips and outings. This helps to build up the “camaraderie” amongst the students, as well as helping to break down the barriers that can sometimes exist between junior and senior grades.
There are, of course, many more reasons why a person chooses to
commence training in the martial arts, but the above are the main
ones. And it will, more often than not, be one or more of these that
is the “prime motivator” for the majority of people.
As well as having an initial chat with these prospective students,
you could also employ other strategies to help you clarify their
ideas and needs, such as giving them a short questionnaire which
they could take away, fill in and bring back when they officially
enrol.
CONCLUSION
Identifying student’s needs and expectations as quickly and
efficiently as possible enables the instructor to:
1- Ensure that what he/she is teaching IS
actually what the prospective student is looking for (You will need
to be brutally honest here.
For example, it would be completely inappropriate for someone
wanting to learn self defence to enrol in an Iaido class, just as a
person wanting to experience meditation might be a bit disappointed
if they ended up a student in a kick boxing class, etc. It is the
instructor’s responsibility to consider the welfare of this person,
and to guide them in their choice. Rather than simply regarding them
as yet another training fee!)
2- It will enable the instructor to gain
valuable insight into the background and aspirations of the
individual and, (if and when appropriate) to modify their syllabus,
resources and teaching methodology to accommodate these efficiently.
Jumping to conclusions about what your students want, on the other
hand, is both patronising and condescending and can be an extremely
effective method of putting people of studying martial arts for
good!